Shifting Perspectives

As fall approaches, I find myself looking forward to cooler weather, crisp evenings by the fire, more gumbo, and fewer mosquitoes. But as I was reflecting on the season, my mind drifted to the things I don’t enjoy as much—like the leaves that inevitably end up in my pool. I started spiraling down the rabbit hole of negativity: I’ll have to check the skimmer baskets twice a day, often in the dark. The cold pole hurts my hands, and pulling out the leaves from the freezing water makes my fingers go numb. On and on my mind went, focusing on what’s uncomfortable about the cooler weather.

I had to intentionally stop myself and redirect my thoughts. I do love the cooler weather! I’m blessed to have a pool! I love cozy evenings by the fire!

And then, in what my children would call a “morbid” moment, I found myself wondering, “How many falls do I have left?” I hope for at least fifty more, but the truth is, none of us really know. This could be my last fall. Do I want to focus on the things I don’t like, or fully appreciate the things I love?

Life is so short. The older we get, the more we realize that truth. The good in life outweighs the bad, but it’s easy to let the negatives dominate our thoughts. Let’s make it a practice to be intentional with our thinking. When you find yourself complaining about something, challenge yourself to find two positive things about the situation instead.

Now go enjoy this cooler weather!