Thankful for Hardships
Thankful for Hardships
On Thanksgiving Day, it’s natural to focus on the good things in life—our families, friends, freedoms, and blessings. These gifts are certainly worth celebrating, but what about the hard things? Are we equally thankful for the struggles and challenges that have shaped us?
It’s not easy to feel grateful for a less-than-perfect childhood, a season of financial strain, or the trials that test our faith. What about the coworker who seems to push every button or the moments in life where disappointment feels overwhelming? While these experiences may not be enjoyable, they often play a significant role in shaping us into who we are today—resilient, compassionate, and strong.
As Christians, we are reminded in Scripture to give thanks in all circumstances. 1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, “Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Notice it doesn’t say to give thanks for all circumstances, but in them. Even in the midst of hardship, we can choose gratitude because we trust that God is working for our good.
Trials have a way of refining us, much like gold being purified in fire. James 1:2-4 encourages us to “consider it pure joy” when we face trials, because they produce perseverance and maturity. While it may feel counterintuitive, these difficult moments are often where God does His greatest work in us. They teach us humility, patience, and reliance on Him.
When we look back on the struggles we’ve endured, we often see how God used them to strengthen our faith and prepare us for future blessings. Perhaps that difficult coworker taught you how to love unconditionally. Maybe that challenging season of financial hardship helped you develop a deeper trust in God’s provision. Or perhaps your less-than-perfect childhood instilled in you a compassion for others who have walked a similar road.
Being thankful for hardships doesn’t mean we ignore the pain or pretend the struggle wasn’t real. Instead, it means acknowledging that even in our brokenness, God has a plan and a purpose. It’s about trusting that He can take what was meant for harm and use it for good (Genesis 50:20).
So, this Thanksgiving, take a moment to thank God not only for the blessings but also for the trials. Reflect on how He has brought you through those moments and how they’ve shaped your character, faith, and heart. Gratitude for the hard things can shift our perspective, helping us to see God’s faithfulness in every season of life.
As you gather around the table today, may your heart be filled with a deeper gratitude—a gratitude that encompasses the whole of your journey, both the joys and the challenges. Because in all things, God is shaping us into the people He created us to be.